Photographed by Karyn Millet for Raili Clasen.
Question Time
The first step? “Sit down with them, and ask a few questions,” says Clasen. “Yes, some parents think it’s crazy to involve their kid’s ever changing opinions, but seeing the look on their faces when they see their bedroom never ends without tears of joy (usually mine).”

“Ask what is their favorite thing to do. I stopped asking what their favorite sport was because LOTS of kids do not do sports.”